Husband · Father · Man of Faith · Individual
Personal north star
Be a present husband, an intentional father, and a disciplined man — building a stable, healthy, and meaningful life for my family while creating a legacy that outlives me.
01 · Family leadership & structure
Direction, alignment, shared vision
Provide direction, structure, and alignment for the family.
Hold a family meeting once per month — first Sunday, 30–45 minMonthly
Conduct a quarterly family review — progress and adjustmentsQuarterly
Define and reinforce shared family values and visionQ1
Maintain simple family routines — daily and weekly structure
02 · Family time, presence & experiences
Present, engaged, creating memories
Be present and actively engaged in family life.
Spend 1–2 hours of intentional family time daily — no devices
Dedicate 1 full day per week as family day — no work, no emails
Plan 1 major family tripQ3
Plan 4 family field trips — one per quarter
Plan 2 family adventure daysQ2 · Q4
Visit family and friends at least once per month
Invite others into our home quarterly — hospitality
03 · Marriage & relationship
Strong, stable, and connected
Build and protect a strong, supportive marriage.
Date nights at least 2 times per month
Be fully present during family time — phone down, work off
Maintain open communication on finances, goals, and direction
Actively support my wife's personal and financial goals
Purchase a vehicle for my wifeQ4
Plan and take at least one meaningful couple tripQ3
04 · Fatherhood & child development
Actively involved in every stage
Be actively involved in my child's growth and development.
Present in child's daily routine — morning or bedtime, device-free
Attend every key milestone — health visits, school events, firsts
Enroll child in kindergartenQ1–Q2
Introduce new learning activities regularly — books, music, nature, play
Create a rewards-to-responsibilities system and chore chart
Open child education savings accountQ1
Write down what kind of father I want to be in 2026
05 · Faith & family culture
Values-driven, connected, rooted
Build a home rooted in faith, gratitude, and strong values.
Pray together as a family — daily where possible
Play music at home — worship, cultural, uplifting
Model faith, generosity, and integrity for my child daily
Serve or give back to community meaningfully in 2026
06 · Personal finances & security
Debt · savings · passive income · retirement
Ensure financial stability, discipline, and long-term security.
Clear RWF 16,000,000 personal debt at Zigama BankPriority
Save or invest at least 20% of income monthly — automated
Family emergency fund — minimum 6 months of expensesQ1
Passive income: RWF 150K/month → RWF 500K+/month by year end
Begin retirement planning — pension or investment vehicle
Fully separate personal and business finances
07 · Family assets & development
Plot · family home · income assets
Build long-term family wealth and physical stability.
Buy a plot of land for family home — Kigali or BugeseraQ2–Q3
Begin planning and design for house construction (build 2027)
Acquire at least one additional income-generating asset
Complete at least one meaningful home improvement project
Optimise and manage existing properties for maximum return
08 · Health, energy & discipline
Physical · nutrition · sleep · rest
Maintain strong physical and mental capacity.
Exercise at least 3 times per week — scheduled
Improve nutrition — gradual and sustainable
Reduce unnecessary screen time — set daily limits
Sleep 7–8 hours per night consistently
Implement daily wind-down routine — no screens before sleep
Complete one full medical check-upQ1
09 · Personal growth & learning
Books · language · certification · degree
Continuously improve skills, knowledge, and capacity.
Complete 1 major certification — CISSP or AWS Solutions Architect
Make measurable progress toward undergraduate degree
Read at least 6 books during the year
Learn or improve a new language — French or Swahili
Build at least one strong mentorship or peer relationship
10 · Time, balance & control
Boundaries · rest · burnout prevention
Maintain control over time and prevent burnout.
Define clear working hours — job vs business vs family
Weekly personal review every Sunday — 30 minutes
Protect one full rest day per week — no work, no exceptions
Take at least one proper personal vacation during the year
11 · Personal identity & legacy
Who I am becoming · long-term impact
Grow as a man and build long-term impact and meaning.
Build personal brand in IT, cybersecurity, and leadership
Strengthen key personal and professional relationships
Define and live according to strong personal values daily
Define personal legacy statement: what do people say about Prince the man, not the MD?
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Weekly
Monthly
Quarterly & annually
| Debt to clear | RWF 16,000,000 — Zigama Bank |
| Emergency fund | 6 months of household expenses (Q1) |
| Child education | Dedicated savings account opened Q1 |
| Passive income | RWF 150K/month → RWF 500K+/month |
| Savings rate | 20% of personal income monthly |
| Property | Plot purchased Q2–Q3 · House plan 2026 |
| Vehicle | Wife's vehicle purchased by Q4 |
| Retirement | Pension or investment vehicle opened 2026 |
Weekly scorecard
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1 · Family presence
0/4▶Spent 1–2 hours of intentional family time daily (no devices)
Dedicated 1 full day to family (no work, no emails)
Present in child's daily routine (morning or bedtime)
Attended a child milestone or school event (if applicable)
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2 · Marriage
0/4▶Was fully present with spouse (phone down, work off)
Date night completed (if scheduled this week)
Had at least one honest conversation about goals or finances
Actively supported spouse's personal goals this week
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3 · Faith & family culture
0/3▶Prayed together as a family (minimum 4 of 7 days)
Played music at home (worship, cultural, uplifting)
Encouraged shared responsibilities and positive home culture
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4 · Health & energy
0/5▶Exercised 3 times this week (scheduled)
Slept 7–8 hours consistently (minimum 5 of 7 nights)
Followed wind-down routine (no screens before bed)
Improved nutrition — whole meals, less processed food
Managed screen time — stayed within daily limit
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5 · Personal growth
0/5▶Made progress on current book or course
Completed Sunday personal review (30 minutes)
Worked on certification study (CISSP or AWS)
Practiced new language (French or Swahili)
Made progress toward undergraduate degree
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6 · Time & balance
0/4▶Maintained clear boundary — Kaspersky, Maxventures, and family hours
Protected one full rest day (no work, no emails)
Delegated at least one task instead of doing it myself
Did not work during family day
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7 · Finances
0/4▶Stayed within personal budget this week
No unnecessary or impulse purchases
Tracked personal expenses this week
Zigama Bank installment paid (if due this week)
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Weekly reflection
3 wins this week
3 misses this week (honest, no judgement)
One thing to do differently next week
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Yearly overview — 2026
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Milestones done
| Zigama Bank debt | RWF 16,000,000 cleared |
| Passive income | RWF 500,000+/month by Dec |
| Emergency fund | 6 months expenses saved |
| Plot purchased | Kigali or Bugesera · Q2–Q3 |
| Wife's vehicle | Purchased by Q4 |
| Certification | CISSP or AWS completed |
| Retirement vehicle | Pension or investment opened |
| Family trips | 4 field trips · 1 major trip |